When Nanoseconds Count

In some ways, the sheer busyness of parenthood was a blessing because you have no choice but to be present when comforting a tiny baby. There’s no room for the merry-go-round of fear and projection that accompanies a cancer diagnosis in such moments; there is only the baby in the crook of your arm. Life must be lived now.

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Holding Joy and Pain Together

Cancer caregivers live in the already and not yet. We live in between joy and pain, remission and recurrence. We know any moment can shift us from one side to the other. May 21, 2001, began as the most joyous day of my life. That’s the day I became a mother. I had twins, a…

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Living with Cautious Optimism

When your loved one is diagnosed with cancer, and life seems to throw you one bad turn after the next, hope can seem elusive. For me, the randomness of my husband Brett’s medulloblastoma diagnosis, which typically affects children ages five and under, was devastating. We had no idea what to expect, how could we? There…

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Caregivers: Don’t Go it Alone

When a loved one is diagnosed with cancer, how do we as caregivers live? Seeking that elusive answer nearly leveled me in the early months of my husband Brett’s brain tumor diagnosiswhen he was diagnosed at 32 in 1998.  The sheer volume of medical appointments both overwhelmed and saved us. We had so much to…

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Learn to Thrive Amid Disruption

If transitions in leadership, careers, and organizations are inevitable, why do they test our resilience, causing the sturdiest among us to doubt and fear? This is true of any disruptive event, including a personal loss like my own, which, at the time, diminished my confidence, optimism, and ability to meet my goals. Being widowed young…

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Know Your Strength

I’ve taken up boxing. This is me practicing my jab. Let me be clear about something. In no way do I have any intention of fighting for real. I took up boxing for three reasons: 1) because it’s a heck of a workout and I tend to shy away from intense cardio activity 2) because it…

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Thank you…Challenges

I know what you’re thinking. Yeah, right. Who, after all, welcomes adversity?  Some people are luckier than others, that’s a fact. But at one point or another, you may be felled by a challenge so crippling it hurls you to your knees. A health crisis. A personal loss. A business setback. A moment of clarity when…

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