I’m back! No, I haven’t run off to Tahiti although the notion of a clean getaway from the crush of life does sound appealing. In fact, I’m sitting at one of my favorite writing haunts, The St. Mark’s Coffeehouse, looking at the following anonymous message scribbled in pink chalk: Let’s runaway together. Just you and me. I haven’t even met you yet but I’m ready. Let’s go.
Hmmmmm. That’s an enticing thought. Where would you like to go? Fantasize. If only in your mind, or beneath the soft weight of your comforter, dream, it’s healthy.
My spirit needs recharging, that’s for sure. Just the other night I said to Steve, “let’s go away for the night, let’s head to the mountains.” Past experience has taught me that stepping away every so often is the best boost to my emotional and spiritual health. It’s like meditation ; when I’m outside of my daily grind, I take time to slow my pacing, breathe deeper, and gain perspective.
Times are tight, and it’s hard to break away, I know. Still, I’m a big advocate for physically shaking life up every few months, just like applying that fresh coat of paint I blogged about in my first entry. You don’t really need to hop on a plane or train – although the idea of doing so is sometimes enough of a release. Steve and I have a running joke that when the going gets rough we’ll meet one another aboard the flight to Italy. He’ll text me, “hurry, the plane is leaving in a half hour.” Someday…
How about starting with small ideas? A restorative hike; dinner out with your partner or a special friend; a visit to that museum you can’t ever seem to make time for; or, a movie (my spirit was higher after armchair traveling with Mamma Mia.)
Maybe your ideal retreat is secluding yourself at home?
The point is to make time for yourself amidst the fullness of life. I’m a better wife, mother, daughter, friend, and writer when I do.
I leave you with ripe food for thought by Maya Angelou, whom I came to know through my experiences at UNICEF.
“Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.”