It’s been awhile. I know.
My friend, Cindy, is spot-on when she says May should be called MAYHEM. I had one of my busiest work months ever, and for those of us with children, this month is always a whirlwind. Seems like every diorama project, field trip, spring fundraiser, and picnic takes place. Not to mention all the birthdays – in our own family alone, May and June must have been optimal the time to be born.
The good thing is that all of this is cause for celebration, something that’s been on my mind lately. Because I’ve doing a lot of it.
And this spurt of good times and party going has taught me something: that the more you invite celebrations into your life, the more you want them. They’re contagious, I think, in a good way.
While interviewing an executive the other week for a speech, she reminded me about an old maxim: “Attitudes are contagious; don’t let ‘em catch yours.” Naturally, she said this in a different context, yet I can’t help but see the relevance here. So much does depend upon our attitudes. And experience tells me that the more open we are to extolling the singular blessings in our lives, the more we are able to connect the dots. Suddenly, we see that one happy moment bleeds into the next, that the grass is greener, the sky appears wider, and the watermelon is more succulent.
My children also teach me that the simplest of moments ought to be cause for celebration – a winning presentation, success navigating friendship dynamics, an excellent story. Yes. We don’t need a ready-made event to celebrate. I’ve come to believe that we can turn any finite moment into a mosaic of happiness.
Speaking of feasting on good times…I may be writing you next from Italy. Steve and I are off to celebrate his 50th birthday.
Arrivederci, for now…